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Self-Care vs. Self-Maintenance:  Know the Difference! with Aja Bennett

Self-Care vs. Self-Maintenance: Know the Difference! with Aja Bennett

December 23, 20252 min read

In today’s fast-moving world, it’s easy to stay busy and forget to pause, reflect, and recognize the unique gifts we each carry. During a recent MOM Live Replay, this powerful reminder came to the forefront: your gifts aren’t accidental—and they’re meant to be used, shared, and enjoyed.

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Here’s a deeper look at that conversation and how embracing your natural talents can transform not just your life, but the lives of others too.


Your Gift Has a Purpose

Everyone has something that comes naturally to them. Maybe you make people laugh without trying. Maybe you sing, teach, listen deeply, or bring calm into chaotic moments.

Those gifts matter.

When you lean into what you do best, you create moments of joy, connection, and inspiration. Something as simple as laughter can lift a heavy heart. A song can comfort. A kind word can shift someone’s entire day. When you honor your gift, you allow it to serve a purpose bigger than yourself.


Fully Express What Lights You Up

There’s a difference between having a gift and using it.

When you give yourself permission to fully express your talent—without minimizing it or waiting for the “perfect” moment—you experience life more deeply. Pouring yourself into what you love doesn’t drain you; it energizes you. It adds meaning, creativity, and fulfillment to everyday life.

Your gift is not meant to stay hidden. It’s meant to be shared freely and joyfully.


Creativity Is a Form of Contribution

Creativity isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. Whether through humor, music, words, or simple acts of encouragement, creative expression leaves a lasting impact.

When you show up as yourself, you give others permission to do the same. Your authenticity becomes an invitation for others to recognize and honor their own gifts.


Learning Together, Growing Together

During the show, Rasheeda shared powerful insights on the importance of using our gifts intentionally. One of the simplest ways to honor those lessons is by reflecting on what resonated with you.

Share your takeaways. Leave a comment. Use hashtags. Express gratitude.

When you speak about what you’ve learned, you reinforce it within yourself—and you help someone else feel seen, inspired, or encouraged to step into their own light.


Final Thoughts

Your gifts are not random. They are tools for connection, joy, and impact. When you embrace them fully, life feels richer—and the world feels a little brighter.

So don’t hold back. Share what comes naturally. Celebrate what lights you up. And let’s continue building a community rooted in appreciation, creativity, and purpose.

Drop your biggest takeaway in the comments and let’s keep the conversation going.

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Rasheeda Green

Hi. My name is Rasheeda. I am a Christian, wife, mother of two, and Founder of MompreneurHQ. Through the years I’ve learned what it takes to gain life and business harmony, to be the entrepreneur AND the mom you know you can be. I have a degree in Business Management and worked in corporate finance and customer service for almost 2 decades. I’ve also started 4 businesses of my own and helped countless others start their own businesses. MompreneurHQ is centered around helping mom entrepreneurs in their every pursuit to start and build successful businesses by providing outstanding resources, detailed training programs, and a passionate team of industry professionals who are dedicated to seeing moms like you succeed.

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